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HATERS GONNA HATE | HOW TO DEAL WITH TROLLS
Haters are going to hate online and offline. My tips on how to deal with trolls and I'm not talking about the ones who live under bridges or what we used to stick at the end of our pencils in primary school.
Recently I was having lunch with some friends who like Cissy and I are heavily involved in social media as it is one of the tools that we use to build our public profiles.
During lunch with friends in between mouthfuls of food we started talking about our different experiences with online trolls and how we each individually deal with them, some said they deleted them straight away and others myself included said they ignore them and don’t delete them based on the theory that if you delete them you’re just giving them the attention they crave which when you think about it is true but it doesn’t work for everyone.
So with that in mind I thought along with today’s outfit post I would give some tips on how to deal with online haters these are things that I remind myself every time I come across online haters and I hope they help you next time you come across some unsavoury people online.
DON’T FEED THEM
Remember the sign at the park that say’s don’t feed the bird the same applies to trolls and with good reason. Avoidance is and has always been the best course of action. The majority of online haters live off on the confrontation-after all, their goal is to get attention so ignore the haters just like Taylor swift says ‘Shake it off
THEY’RE NOT PAYING YOUR BILLS SO PAY THEM BITCHES NO MIND OR ENERGY. THEY’RE NOT WORTH IT.
At the end of the day, do you really need to waste your energy worrying about what one or two sad and pathetic people have to say about?
LAUGH LIKE YOU JUST DON’T GIVE A FUCK
A positive attitude can get you through anything, and while I know you can stop yourself from responding the hateful toads, it’s nearly impossible sometimes to ignore them forever. So in order to keep your sanity in tact I suggest you learn to have a sense of humour about it all.
Because at the end of the day if you’re getting trolled, it’s probably because they see you in a position of influence, which means you’re doing something right so stand tall next time and if that’s not enough wear a shirt that says…“I don’t GIVE a fuck.”
Sleeveless Tee: Shawshank Clothing
Jeans: Yves Saint Laurent Paris
Fur Coat: Cavalli
Sunglasses: Armani Exchange